When God Takes Out the Trash: Healing After Losing a Narcissist If you’re reading this, chances are your heart has been through a storm. Maybe you’ve just walked away from a relationship that drained you — a relationship with someone who made you question your worth, your sanity, and even your faith in love. I know that kind of pain. I know what it feels like to give your all to someone who only took more, to love someone who made you feel small, and to believe that somehow their behavior was your fault. But let me tell you something, woman to woman — losing a narcissist is not a loss . It’s a divine rescue . When I finally walked away, I was broken. I felt empty, confused, and ashamed that I had stayed so long. I kept replaying every moment in my head, wondering if I could’ve done something differently. But as time passed and the fog lifted, I realized something life-changing — God wasn’t punishing me. He was protecting me. That relationship was never love. It was control, m...